He Will Only Do It Doggy Style -- Help?!

Blogmom Bou and I had the following coversation this morning on messenger:

Bou: Some sexpert for the elderly named Sue Johanson is showing up on my msn flicker.

Sissy: Actually...she's not for the elderly. A lot of young people call her, it's quite funny.

Bou: Wow. She's like that troll woman used to be...I can't remember her name....Dr. Ruth!

The conversation went on about how old Dr. Ruth is (she was born in 1928) and how nothing was ever off limits or "bad" to her. As we dug deeper, we found that Dr. Ruth has a website.

One of the questions:

My Boyfriend of 5 years, always wants to have sex doggie style. we did for about 5-6 months. I got tired of it. I want him to make love to me. I’ll ask him why he won't and his answer is “I don't know.” Now we haven't had sex for about a month because I refuse to unless he makes love to me. It seems to me he’d rather not have sex at all. Can you please help me? It’s driving me nuts.

Dr. Ruth's Answer:

I can’t tell you what’s going through his mind, but I could take a guess. Perhaps he’s gay, but can’t admit it to anyone, and having sex this way allows him to fantasize that he’s having sex with a man rather than with a woman. That’s not the only explanation. It could be that he failed, i.e. lost his erection, having sex in other positions and now he’s afraid to try other positions again in case he’d have another failure. Or maybe he has stronger orgasms in this position. Or maybe you have bad breath and he can’t get up the courage to tell you. As you can see, my first guess isn’t the only possibility, but it’s still my number one choice. Are there any other signs of this? Is there any x-rated material on your computer that is linked to male sites? Gay magazines hidden in his closet? Since you’ve invested five years together, you definitely need to get to the bottom of this. I would recommend that you see a sex therapist. If he goes along, great, if not, you’ll get some help anyway. He’s never going to not prefer this position, but perhaps with the right help, he’d agree to make love to you the way you want to, and then perhaps finish off with sex in his favorite position. Or to some other compromise. But you do need to find out what his answer is, because “I don’t know” is just his way of hiding the truth from you as I’m certain he knows the reason.

She's ugly, she looks like his mother, he wants to watch Sports Center, he makes weird sex faces, his breath smells....

...the list could go on. Poor girl...